Jamie shares the example of a close friend who used to swim and walk regularly but, now retired with fewer obligations, still finds reasons not to exercise — illustrating that excuses persist regardless of circumstances.
03:05starts remembering what it feels like to move.
03:08Your energy shifts, your mood changes, and suddenly
03:12the thing that felt so hard to start actually
03:15makes you feel good. That feeling is what builds
03:17real motivation. I see this play out all the
03:22time. A close friend of mine used to be incredibly
03:24active. She swam regularly at her gym, walked
03:28all the time, and movement was just a natural
03:31part of her life. But now she's retired and she
03:34tells me she just can't seem to get motivated
03:36to start again. She says she doesn't have the
03:39time because she has so many projects going on,
03:43so many errands. And I get it. Life fills up
03:46so quickly. There's so many opportunities to
03:51give yourself an excuse for why you can't get
03:53to the gym. You can't go for a walk. But you'd
03:56think when you're retired, kids are out of the
03:59house. You don't have a full -time job anymore.
04:01How could you come up with an excuse for why
04:03you can't work out? But here's a perfect example
04:07of someone who did just retire, who doesn't have
04:11a full house full of kids running around, who
04:14doesn't have a full -time job that takes up.
04:1740 hours of her week, and yet she's still finding
04:20reasons for why she can't get to the gym to swim
04:24and she can't walk, etc. The truth of the matter
04:27is that we will always find reasons to prioritize
04:31something different than the gym, than the walk,
04:35than eating healthier, because that is the issue.
04:40It's the fact that we don't have the motivation
04:42in order to start the action. And I hate to say
04:45it, but your life so fulfilling, so much going
04:49on, but it's really just about finding how to
04:51reprioritize things. So the challenge really
04:54isn't the time, it's that first step. Because
04:57when you're out of the habit of moving, the brain
04:59waits for motivation to magically show up before
05:02taking action. But it doesn't work that way.
05:06Motivation is the result of doing the thing.
05:09So instead of asking yourself, do I feel motivated
05:12today? A better question is, what is the smallest
05:16action I can take right now? Maybe it's a 10
05:19-minute walk. Maybe it's just putting on your
05:22workout shoes and sports bra and leaving the
05:25house and seeing where you end up. Action creates
05:28momentum. Momentum creates motivation. And motivation
05:32is what makes the habit stick. So if you're waiting
05:35to feel motivated before you start taking care
05:38of your health, you may be waiting forever. So
05:41start with the action. Motivation will catch